Where you gather says a lot.
The right space makes people feel welcome. The wrong space can make people feel invisible, unsafe, or unwelcome — especially if they’re disabled, queer, grieving loudly, or just… human.

This page offers practical tips for finding or shaping a space that holds everyone with care.

What to consider:

• Physical accessibility: ramps, bathrooms, seating, parking, sensory accommodations
• Gender-neutral and inclusive restrooms
• Staff who respect pronouns, chosen family, and cultural differences
• Clear policies around outside food, ritual tools, music, or noise
• Indoor/outdoor options for folks who need movement, fresh air, or a quiet corner

An affirming space doesn’t just accommodate grief — it welcomes it.